DEB TALK: LOVE OR INFATUATION??
Hey Lovers, Trust your week has been nothing short of interesting like mine.....Lol
Okay, So, I have decided to start sharing some little secrets about myself with you as we progress(Awwwwn, I see someone eyes rolling from here, lol, dont worry, you are safe, they are Not 🔞 secrets)
Before we go to the main Gist, Oya come close, bring your ears, let me whisper one of the secret to you, don't tell anybody oh🤭. Okay, the Thing is, hmmmmm, don't tell Anybody that I told you I Love Smiling oooh, it's my default setting, I don't even know why I like smiling, Lolz (Oya Smile, let's go to the main gist for today😉)
LETS TALK LOVE AND INFATUATION? HMMM?🤔
Where are my fine girls? Where are my fine boys? Biko get ti inside hia(mimicking a Typical Igbo man). Oya grab a chair, I want to talk some sense into you.
-Just Because Brother Favour says you are beautiful and absolutely amazing, and oh! He won't stop Smiling at you Whenever the Pastor is Preaching on Sunday, doesn't mean he Loves You. Hian
-Or, because he (managed😁) to get you a Birthday Gift, and he later takes you out on a dinner, is not a license to start thinking you have found your "Prince Charming".It could probably be that he feels you look amazing really but he only needs you to warm his bed and he will leave once he get that done. Vhoom! You sef you no try!
Now! You have paid him a visit him! cook for him! He complements you and says He would Love to marry someone that can clean his house like you and you are there opening your teeth like "Ebuka's" own. Sister are you Okay at all, ehn, When did you turn to Dishwasher, Abi are you now a washing machine ni?😁
Abi because she likes walking with you to class and she even introduced you to her sisters as her Bestie, doesn't mean She is in Love with You, You better wake up, before you start singing "Amaka, Disappoint me, Iyeneke confusion", you will soon see Implication😄
Okay, enough of the jokes, let me be serious. I need Someone to get the message clear so you can stop deceiving yourself and the other party too.
There is a clear difference between LOVE and INFATUATION, don't mix them together, they are not the same....
There are too many people that are convinced that they are in love with someone just becau
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Here are seven difference between the Two, you should know;
1. INFATUATION is delusional, LOVE is real
2. INFATUATION is when he plays games(and cheat on you), If he really loves you, he will not.
Love thrives on meaningful connections
3. INFATUATION grows with desire, LOVE grows with Friendship
4. INFATUATION has unrealistic expectations, LOVE has realistic Standards.
5. INFATUATION follows a Timeline, LOVE is Timeless
6. INFATUATION makes you forget you have a Life, LOVE is integrated with Yours.
7. INFATUATION brings obsession and Jealousy, LOVE brings Understanding and Trust....
So the next time, she flaunt you around to her friends because she finds you attractive or the next time, he looks at you and say he loves you, be sure he mean every word of it, be sure it is not INFATUATION, don't come and be smiling up and down like me oo, You know I Smile a Lot😄
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