DEB TALK: Lovey Lovey Sunday

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Lovey Lovey Sunday........❤

Hey Lovelies, Happy New Month, The month of Love I suppose😊
Welcome to another beautiful sunday on #Debtalk. Oya grab a chair, sit, let's talk a little about this tingling feeling oh jare.

I have come to discover that one of the main reason why so many relationship fail is because there was no relationship from the beginning.

Ok you met this charming, tall, dark and handsome gentleman the other day, today he's calling you every 15 minutes and sending you tushed love messages, and YOU KEPT QUIET!

He is taking you out and spending big on expensive dates and gift presents, YOU KEPT QUIET!

He is inviting you over for a good time at his place, you accepted, and KEPT QUIET!

He came closer, and YOU KEPT QUIET!
He is having his hands strategically placed all over you and you still sat there and KEPT QUIET!

He got you twinkling, high on emotions, pants down, ate your treasure, and even forget to say thank you, you sat there breathless and still KEPT QUIET!

Suddenly, 5 minutes after the excitement you look at the tired young man in the eyes and say:
"Ekene, NOW THAT YOU HAVE TAKEN IT, WHAT ARE WE NOW?"

Eeehhn? Like are your seriously asking him the question? What are we now?

Okay, we are Simi and Adekunle and we just release the "Promise"😒, like seriously what exactly do you expect a man to say in that position?

When the call and messages are getting interesting you didn't ask him that question, when he was buying you gifts and taking you out on expensive dates you kept quiet, when he was reaching for your pants you kept quiet, so WHY NOW? WHY AFTER THE BALL IS NO LONGER IN GOD COURT TO DECIDE?

Oh dear, it's a gigantic error to define "what are we" after the desired has been acquired, that is the first thing you do when you start noticing that things are getting serious, and not after the treasure that God wants you to serve after marriage has been served.

Even when you ask and he mumbles some sweet words like he is ready to commit, it is not real, anything a man says after that is said out of the intention not to hurt your feelings. And you yourself knows it.

Don't allow your relationship to officially starts when the cake has been served. You are only mocking Godly principles and asking him to stay away from your relationship.

Your treasure is suppose to be served exclusively in marriage, why flipping Godly principle in other to satisfy the flesh?

If this message is biting down your conscience please do not sit there and pity yourself, we all have made big mistakes and wrong decisions in life, learn from it.

Brother Ekene, biko, you people too should stop confusing our sisters ehn.

If you don't love her, leave her. If you don't see her as someone you can have/stay with for a lifetime, Stop deceiving her.

Relationship are meant to be defined at the earliest stage possible, limits are set, boundaries are marked, missions are clearly stated and intentions are revealed.

Do well to send in your feedbacks, I would love to hear form you😊

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