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THE STING OF GUILT  Guilt, the feeling of deep regret from a wrong doing is poisonous to our social, mental and emotional growth, that awareness of condemnation that makes you feel less of yourself. It deprives you of your self worth, unable to make tangible progress because your mind has been invaded by thoughts of damnation and just like a virus it crashes your entire system.  We must understand that  sometimes things will wrong in life either intentionally or by mistake, they maybe a twist of fate, altered plans and all that but we must not allow our negative experiences to hinder our progress. You must make a conscious decision that bad as it is nothing should become an issue in your life, decide to allow every negativity to go as soon as possible. It is over thinking that leads to depression, unhappiness then guilt and finally death. Guilt comes to tie us down from reac hing our desired goal in life.  Most people and especially young people are just floating thr...

Hi lovelies. My attention has been drawn to a story of a guy who committed suicide due to the fact that his girlfriend broke up with him. I believe you might have come across the story online. Now, I've been thinking and also wondering what could have happened that will lead to such a decision. It's easier read you know, “man committed suicide because his girlfriend broke up with him". You could imagine the comments it would attract. I also learnt from his story that he was a drummer and also a music director in one of the popular church in Nigeria, you can imagine. This guy, according to a tribute written about him was full of potentials, spiritual and has a promising future. The news of his death came as a shock because nobody expected it, he was a great guy, everything was in order (appears so). Suicide is not something one will just jump into. I believe this guy has attempted suicide in the past maybe twice or more but this wasn't definitely his first ju...

VISION-THE FUNDAMENTAL REQUIREMENT FOR SUCCESS. Hello and welcome to the tellrhodes blog, I'm glad to have you join us today at “A glimpse of hope" segment.     Today, we'll be talking about Vision. Many us must have heard the word vision over and over again but I really want us to address it very critically.    Vision simply put is a goal, desire or something you're aspiring to achieve. In life, we have to not only have a sense of vision but work with it. Vision gives you a reason to live. Helen Keller said “the most painful thing to happen to anyone is to have sight but lack vision". So many have sight but lack vision just like so many can look but not all can see because it's one thing to look but it's another thing to see. Vision gives your life a meaning, he that plans to achieve nothing automatically wastes life, time and resources. You were created for a purpose and you need vision to properly align yourself to the accomplishment of you...

TAKING RESPONSIBILITY. Hello there and welcome to the tellrhodes blog. It's another beautiful Saturday and we all know what time it is for us as a country. It's our presidential election and this time is key to determining the destiny of our dear country. If you have your PVC please it is your civic responsibility to go out to vote. Vote your choice, do not sell your vote. Let's pray and vote as the destiny of our country lays within us. Taking responsibility for the future of our country begins with your vote and my vote. I'll be at my polling unit to vote please make sure you do the same. Wishing us all a happy weekend, thank you. FB: Aboje King Kenneth IG: abojekenneth

YES YOU CAN. Hello and welcome to your favorite blog,   tellrhodes blog. We're glad to have you visit us today been Saturday 9th February, 2019.      You are an embodiment of God's awesomeness and there's no limit to what you can accomplish. The only thing that you cannot accomplish is what you have not set your heart to do. God has created you with an ability on your inside and this ability is limitless. Yes you can achieve that goal just keep moving and believing that good things are happening for you everyday. Step out knowing that your "best" now is not your best in life, there's greatness ahead. Oh, yes you can achieve anything worthwhile with persistence. You have what it takes to change the world.      Do have a wonderful day lovelies. Facebook: Aboje Kenneth Ojochona IG: abojekenneth

WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO???     Hello and welcome to "A glimpse of hope" on your favorite blog "the tellrhodes blog".     The world is constantly changing, people are seeking better ways to get things done.     The world is driven by result oriented factors, where they are no results competence would be questioned. Some people complain, I need more time, money, space and resources. Now my biggest question to you today is... IF YOU HAD UNLIMITED EVERYTHING" that is, unlimited time, money, space and everything, what would you do more efficiently???     Your answer to that question is what you've been wired to do. The statement, "Jag of all trade but master of none" has been misunderstood because of the letter "n". It is jag of all trades but master of one.     Don't forget to maintain a high hope in this coming week. Thank you. Facebook: Aboje King Kenneth Instagram: abojekenneth

GOLIATH IS NOT DEAD!!!!      It couldn't had been an illusion of what I saw that the head of this giant was actually chopped off his body. Maybe it was all a dream, maybe Goliath didn't ever exist or this is all fiction. Actually, David Jesse did a perfect job and though Goliath is dead but his deadly threats are very much alive in our minds. His threats that broke our self esteem, enslaved us and made us incapacitated to unleash the God nature in us. Not until we conquer the Goliath inside even the remains of Goliath would still oppress us. David Jesse inspires me a lot, he already saw Goliath as a dead man ever before he confronted him. Let's get rid of his words from our minds, get refreshed and energized from the inside cos the battle inside is twice as hot as the battle outside!!!! Aboje King Kenneth fb Abojekenneth IG

GETTING AHEAD IN LIFE AND DESTINY.   We live in a society  where people only think of the future as an event that will eventually happen but how the future will meet you is determined by what you are doing now. Some people would say that anyhow it is, bad as it may be I hope to have achieved something tangible before that time but my understanding is you don't “wish” for the future you “work” towards it.      You have a great future ahead of you but it has to be developed. No great achievement is made by accident, it is as a result of deliberate diligent and dedicated actions.      I will briefly share with you five steps in getting ahead. 1. DISCOVERY Your discovery determines your recovery in life and destiny. Until you discover who and what you represent life would remain a burden. 2. PURSUIT It is not enough to discover what you represent, you must pursue it with every resources available to you. 3. WISDOM   Wisdom is the rig...

YOU'RE A MASTER PIECE    There's something we all have that we unconsciously take for granted. You were born unique, don't crave to become like someone else but develop that person God has created you to be. God had a plan and a definite purpose even before He formed you, you are not here just to add up to the number. There's a lot of potentials embedded in you by God and He didn't create you to be like another person He created you a MASTER PIECE-stick to your uniqueness. Stop looking around and start looking inward, tap into your uniqueness and make your life count.    Everybody cannot be the same, everyone cannot be a doctor, a lawyer, a pastor or an engineer. God made you differently to point to you that there's a uniqueness upon you, stop comparing yourself with others because the more you do that you unconsciously waste the person God has made you to be. Be yourself, do your thing, create your own awesomeness, a celebrity is not necessarily that very...

DISCIPLINE, THE CURE NOT A CONTROL MEASURE. Good day lovelies and welcome to the tellrhodes blog. This blog is dedicated to youths who love excellence and one of the important ingredients for excellent living is DISCIPLINE. Checked up the meaning of discipline in the dictionary but just this one that got my attention, it says “discipline is to train someone (yourself) by instruction and practice".     If you must go far in life and destiny you must be disciplined, discipline is enduring today's pain for tomorrow's gain. Putting yourself under certain practice, principles and control is key to achieving your goals and attaining maximum impact in life. Instruction is what structures your life, without instruction you'll end up in destruction. You must have something that keeps you under control if not you'll soon lose relevance in life. As young people who love excellence, we must embrace the structured life by having discipline over our words, appetite, spend...

🌱THE POWER OF POSITIVE CONFESSION🌱 Greetings to you from all of us at the tellrhodes blog and me in particular 👨🏼‍💼 🗣Words are the 🏢 building block of life, our words are so powerful 💪and exerts so much influence on our lives. A word can either be a plus or negative, it can either be adding or subtracting from your life, positive confession builds up your life because as you continue to speak those words something begins to well up in you, a change begins to happen that transforms you. Positive confession begins from thinking positive thoughts, the Bible says in Hebrews 11:3 "through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God... " Your word creates your world. What you say to yourself continually is what you'll become, always learn to see the bright side of every situation, don't confess the negative always think and speak positively.     Positive confession enhances your self esteem, it gives you confidence to face the future w...

🌱THE POWER OF POSITIVE CONFESSION🌱 Greetings to you from all of us at the tellrhodes blog and me in particular 👨🏼‍💼 🗣Words are the 🏢 building block of life, our words are so powerful 💪and exerts so much influence on our lives. A word can either be a plus or negative, it can either be adding or subtracting from your life, positive confession builds up your life because as you continue to speak those words something begins to well up in you, a change begins to happen that transforms you. Positive confession begins from thinking positive thoughts, the Bible says in Hebrews 11:3 "through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God... " Your word creates your world. What you say to yourself continually is what you'll become, always learn to see the bright side of every situation, don't confess the negative always think and speak positively.     Positive confession enhances your self esteem, it gives you confidence to face the future with...

THE FORMATION PROCESS OF A CHAMPION     Welcome to the Nigeria's first onestopblog, the tellrhodes blog. Amazing Saturday I must say and I can feel the vibes already. I'm super excited having you visit 'a glimpse of hope' section you are all so awesome and dear to my heart.      To everything you'll ever want to achieve in life there's a process to it, things don't just happen. Gold must pass through the process of fire for it to be appreciated and the reason for this process in life is so as to ensure maturity and long lasting result coupled with efficient productivity. So, the formation of a champion is to prepare your heart towards winning in life and not just winning but winning professionally. Champions are not born but made, nobody was born a champion, cakes don't fall from the sky it takes process to bake a cake. In essence, nobody was born a champion but by process of training a champion is made. 1. Championship is a mindset, until yo...

THE POWER OF ADEQUATE PREPARATION    Good day to you, it's another Saturday and I'm always looking forward to Saturdays because I know you'll always be right here on tellrhodes blog to catch up with your favourite segment 'a glimpse of hope'. Your presence mean a lot to us on the blog and me in particular.     Today we shall be considering a very interesting topic: the power of adequate preparation.     We are living in a time where people don't really want to pay attention to adequately taking time to prepare for what they want to do but one thing you should know is the days of shabby performance are over. People just want to get over the surface and expect an amazing result, want to put in very little or no effort but want an incredible result. People are so much in a hurry to appear but not so patient to take root downwards in adequate preparation. There's a popular saying that “proper private preparation prevents poor public performance ”. When em...

OVERCOMING LOW SELF ESTEEM It's a beautiful Saturday and I hope you're having a great time but most especially you are highly welcome to Tellrhodes blog hope June is treating you well, I hope so. Most specifically welcome to a glimpse of hope where we give you exclusive amazing vibes for your delight and you can't but keep coming back for more. Today, I want to talk about something very sensitive to everyone including me. The topic before us is; "Overcoming low self esteem" but before we go deep into it let's break it down.  ESTEEM is simply to regard with respect then self esteem would mean to regard oneself with respect. The mental image which you have about yourself, the picture you have in your mind, the opinion you have about yourself either positively or negatively constitute your self esteem and it goes a long way to determine your character, efficiency, productivity in life and it affects every as aspect of your life.   Esteem could be viewed...

JUST THINKING ALOUD This life can be so funny but wait let me be more specific. We human beings can be so funny and if I may add very unpredictable. You suddenly turned a poet at the news of his death, updating condolence post on the media. I never knew you could use words so nicely, but when he was alive you couldn't even recognize him for who he was but now you come on his timeline and say "R. I. P young blood, such a promising fellow with great potentials". Okay, I get it, it's either you saw him as an opposition too much for you to handle or you just couldn't beat his awesomeness. Now he is dead, what effect has your nice words to him now. I don't intend to talk too much but this life is just too crude to be used as a yardstick to measure worth, love and relationships. Let's learn to celebrate people while they are alive, compliment people, let them know how you love them and believe in them. Answer people when they call your phone and if...

GLIMPSE OF HOPE WITH ABOJE KENNETH TIME MANAGEMENT Beautiful Saturday to you and welcome to tellrhodes blog. I know you've got great plans for today and I'm here to add more spice more sauce to your day. Now Time 📆🕜 MANAGEMENT. Time is one of the world's greatest assets and your treasured possession too, we all have the same 24 hours in a day but the difference between each and everyone of us is how we spend our time. Time management doesn't necessarily imply you doing a task within a stipulated time frame but you making judicious use of your time,it  is you accounting for your time spent. It is not in the quantity of time spent but in the quality of job done, you should be able to drift your life from wasting time to spending time wisely. Time is precious, it waits for nobody, time lost can never be recovered so it becomes very imperative to make judicious use of every moment of our lives, make every moment count. It will interest you to know that time is ...