SELF ESTEEM

Good morning people, hope you all had a lovely night

"self esteem”, a little something we work with everyday. We wake up every morning and there we are feeling one emotion or another.

Finding one place in the society can be quite difficult at times. First of all you, you’re born into a family, you are someone sister or brother. If are only child, it might be easy. But a large family requires you to take a position. You may be crazy one, the dependable or the quiet one.

 All these positions requires you to act a certain way.You hear a parent say “Not you too Bob!, I expected such a behavior from Sarah, not you" then you begin to wonder how it came to that point.

When you enter in the society, you try to carry that position you had earned in your family into it. Sometimes the group you find yourself may need that dependable or crazy one which you are and sometimes the crazy one may already be there before your entry.

Then you begin to find yourself again.

And sometimes finding oneself when there isn’t a foundation becomes quiet difficult. You begin to doubt yourself and low self esteem quietly creeps in.

 You begin to question everything about yourself.

Confidence. Faith. Believe.

Three things you could work with to boost yourself.

 Believing in yourself could be quite difficult if there is no foundation to build on. You need to think of yourself as piece that needs to be worked on. You should see yourself as more of the world thinks you are and as someone who can make the right choices when given the opportunity.

Faith for yourself and others should come work hand in hand.

Create your crew.

 Surround yourself with people who reflect who you are and the person you’re trying to be.
it shouldn't be all about you.

 For you have to faith in people should means they should in you too. Friendship should go both ways and yours shouldn’t be all about receiving. If you want love and affections from others, you should be willing to show them too.

 Remember that before everyone else, your creator should come first

Confidence comes after believe and faith. This shouldn’t make you feel ignorant. Being confident about who you are shouldn’t make you think less of others. You should remember where you started from and know that where are you going, you need others to reach some levels in life.

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