LETTER TO ME: THE INDEPENDENT WOMAN VS THE MOULD

LETTER TO ME

THE WOMAN v THE MOULD

Hey guys, how are we all doing? I sincerely hope you're not getting a high BP because if the collation of the election results? Whatever the outcome, just work to ensure you are setup nicely.

Away from election matters, last week, we started discussing how that ladies have a mould in their heads of the "dream guy" and how they hold men to standards that often times, they don't meet up to. And I remember calling out the guys, to work on themselves too, to make sure they don't have to work at meeting some standards to get a lady to like them.

Today, I want to talk about how we the men, have moulds in our heads... With a twist. Often, when we see these moulds, we tend to assume the worst. I'll discuss just one mould in this.

Tell me bro, what comes to your mind when you meet a lady who pays her own bills, can pay yours, and has all she'd ever need? You think she's a prostitute. Why, because she doesn't NEED you, as much as you want her to?

Agreed, there are those who take the independence thing so far, they actually become tiring and exhausting. They become disrespectful, prideful and generally impossible to have a healthy relationship with. But that's still a few.

Some ladies are genuinely independent and worked every bit for what they have. When you meet someone like that, what you should do is "Put some respeck on her name". Don't go judging every lady you see and be crying foul. Sometimes, the people who actually lead this independent life are actually lonely.

Because while half the people they know are out there judging, the other half believe they could never want love or to be. So the next time you see an independent, find out the truth to her independence rather than immediately fitting her to a mould on first sight.

Do have a good week. Cheers!

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