DON'T SETTLE: MENTAL HEALTH WITH TIANA

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Welcome to " Mental health" talk with Tiana
Hope you had a great day
Today, we will be talking about "settling"
What does it mean to settle?
Settling is the act of not being able to satisfy your need or want and choosing someone or something of lower standard or value.
Are you really happy or comfortable with whatever you are holding onto or into?
Most likely no
Look around you, how many people do you think are settling? Probably a high percentage.
People settle into okay jobs, okay friendships, okay relationships and an okay life, because okay is comfortable. Okay pays the bills, it provides a warm bed at night. Some people are fine with okay and guess what that's okay.
But okay is not thrilling, okay is boring, it is not life-changing.
This is to every human who has tried a little too hard.
The one's who are told there vulnerability is a weakness.
To the ones who think they are flawed
This is to everyone who has ever settled and accepted less than they deserved.
To my fellow humans
Please do not settle.
Not in a job you hate, not in a town you don't feel at home, not with friendships that aren't real and especially, especially not with love

So please, baby girl do not settle for the man who texts you at three in the morning, or only when you are at a party without him or only when you are happy without him
Dear human, don't settle for the boy/ girl who plays mind games, who hurts you with words.
Do not settle for the guy who only sees a face, only a body, because baby girl you will always be more than a body.
Do not settle for a girl who only loves you for materialistic reasons,
Do not settle for someone who does not bring you peace.
Never settle for being someone's other when you know you have the potential to be someone's only.
I know you might feel lost right now, you might be scared, you might be terrified of being lonely and you might be thinking this is it, this is all there is. But I promise you there is so much more.
There will be more, so much more
Don't settle for anything less than excitement and jumping beans in the pit of your stomach. Nothing less than forever. Nothing less than knowing beyond doubt that this is genuine love and energy.
Because I promise you, you will find it and it will be more beautiful than you ever imagined.
I want you to know that you are rare,
You are more than enough,
You are the good in this world,
You are important.
You are someone's shot of henessy.
Stay in control.
Stay happy and sane.
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